The Patricia A. Doyle Center for Gender and Sexuality held a discussion called Beyond the Condom where individuals had the chance to actively participate, ask questions and share personal experiences. The main focus of the event was to discuss safe sex practices other than the male condom, as well as sexual health.

Melissa Stoner, the Resident Director of Wilgus Hall, said that our society is taught about sex mostly from the male perspective, but it is important for women to know that there are more options available for them to take control of their sexual well-being. Stoner got involved with sexual health during college where she was a peer health educator.

“I had no idea that the female condom even existed,” Bryn Bowden, sophomore political science and women and gender studies majors said.

Other practices Stoner discussed were dental dams and latex finger cots.

The best way to practice safe sex is to communicate and get consent.

“If you are not able to have a honest, open conversation with your partner, then maybe you should not be having sex together.” Stoner said.

Stoner said it’s important to discuss options and preferences with partners before engaging in sex. Sex should be an experience to explore together. If it does not feel right, she says it is alright to wait. Getting tested for sexually transmitted infection is also something to discuss with a partner. In addition, it is important to know which infections a partner is being tested for.

Those who attended were engaged in the discussion and said they learned a lot from the event.

“I feel so much more empowered as a woman knowing I can take control of my own sexual well-being. It’s nice to know I don’t have to rely on only a male condom.” Hannah Chugg, senior media studies major said.

Bowden said it was also very informative for her. She said it is important to learn about sexual health.

“Sex is a part of human nature. It’s important to know the best way to practice it for the safest and most enjoyable experience for you and your partner” Stoner said. “I think it is important to promote sexual health and be aware.”

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